February 14th is almost here and you know what that means!
Valentine's Day Drama!
(Eeeek Screeech!)
Are you anxious about having a date?
Do you scurry past restaurants filled with happy couples?
Do you ban with your girlfriends to celebrate Singles Awareness Day?
Or do you stay home and ignore the whole blah, damn thing? (Who needs it.)
If you are a Victim of Valentine's Day Drama, it's time for a New Direction!
Join me on a FREE LIVE tele-seminar!
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
6:30 p.m. PST
On this FREE call, we'll discuss:
· The Top 3 Most Important Dating Directions...Ever! (and other things you wish you'd known way back when!)
· How to Define Your Role in a romantic relationship so you eliminate confusion
· Set the Stage to attract EXACTLY who and what you want to attract
· Speak Your Part so you'll know exactly WHAT TO SAY in any dating situation
Be the STAR of your own Love Story!
CLICK HERE to register for this FREE tele-seminar now:
I can't wait to share with you some great ideas that will help you have the romantic relationship you desire! And we'll have a lot of fun in the process!
I look forward to seeing you on the call!
To Your Love Life!
Cherry Norris
The Hollywood Dating Director
P.S. Space is limited on this call! CLICK HERE to reserve your spot NOW!
Friday, January 30, 2009
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Do You Want Him to Respect You...or Cherish You?
by Cherry Norris, "The Dating Director"
"The most important thing is to have a man respect me!" Ellie proclaimed.
"Do you want a man to cherish your feelings?" I asked.
"Of course. I want that too," Ellie added.
"Fine. Stay single and take two lovers."
If you want to be respected and feel cherished in a romantic relationship, you'll need two partners.
One can respect your ideas and follow your lead. The other can cherish your feelings and make the plans.
See? You can have it all.
Just not at the same time.
Or with the same person.
(Unless he's a "doormat" who doesn't have a voice. Or is soooo spineless. Ewww.)
In a romantic relationship, the greatest intimacy is promoted when one partner feels cherished for feelings and the other is respected for thoughts.
If you want to be respected for your thinking AND cherished for your feelings, there is simply no space for another person.
When you Voluntarily give up your respectability in a romantic relationship it means you choose to have your feelings cherished over your thoughts respected and you are willing to follow your man as long as he's moral, ethical and legal.
This doesn't mean you can't be respected for your thoughts Ever...it just means you choose to have your feelings cherished first.
When a man cherishes your feelings, you'll actually feel respected.
(Think about that for a moment!)
When you don't feel good about something and you share your feelings with your man...and he "respects" your feelings...he's actually cherishing you! (Pretty cool, huh?)
When you give your thoughts to a man and he respects your ideas, guess what? You're the man! When a man respects what you think and want...you are the "Hero" of your relationship.
Many times you go competitive with your partner and you don't know why. The reason is because you both want to tell each other what to do...or you both wait for the other person to make the plan!
So when you're meeting a new man...or if you're already with someone...decide:
Do you want to be respected for your thoughts and leadership skills in your romantic relationship?
OR:
Do you want to be cherished for your feelings and are willing to voluntarily give up your lead and follow your respected partner?
If you want to learn exactly what to say and do to have a man cherish you (and know how to artfully guide him) in your romantic relationship...
Order The Role of a Lifetime: How To Star in Your Own Love Story Home Study Course today!
"The most important thing is to have a man respect me!" Ellie proclaimed.
"Do you want a man to cherish your feelings?" I asked.
"Of course. I want that too," Ellie added.
"Fine. Stay single and take two lovers."
If you want to be respected and feel cherished in a romantic relationship, you'll need two partners.
One can respect your ideas and follow your lead. The other can cherish your feelings and make the plans.
See? You can have it all.
Just not at the same time.
Or with the same person.
(Unless he's a "doormat" who doesn't have a voice. Or is soooo spineless. Ewww.)
In a romantic relationship, the greatest intimacy is promoted when one partner feels cherished for feelings and the other is respected for thoughts.
If you want to be respected for your thinking AND cherished for your feelings, there is simply no space for another person.
When you Voluntarily give up your respectability in a romantic relationship it means you choose to have your feelings cherished over your thoughts respected and you are willing to follow your man as long as he's moral, ethical and legal.
This doesn't mean you can't be respected for your thoughts Ever...it just means you choose to have your feelings cherished first.
When a man cherishes your feelings, you'll actually feel respected.
(Think about that for a moment!)
When you don't feel good about something and you share your feelings with your man...and he "respects" your feelings...he's actually cherishing you! (Pretty cool, huh?)
When you give your thoughts to a man and he respects your ideas, guess what? You're the man! When a man respects what you think and want...you are the "Hero" of your relationship.
Many times you go competitive with your partner and you don't know why. The reason is because you both want to tell each other what to do...or you both wait for the other person to make the plan!
So when you're meeting a new man...or if you're already with someone...decide:
Do you want to be respected for your thoughts and leadership skills in your romantic relationship?
OR:
Do you want to be cherished for your feelings and are willing to voluntarily give up your lead and follow your respected partner?
If you want to learn exactly what to say and do to have a man cherish you (and know how to artfully guide him) in your romantic relationship...
Order The Role of a Lifetime: How To Star in Your Own Love Story Home Study Course today!
Monday, January 12, 2009
Do You Keep Him or Delete Him?
by Cherry Norris, "The Dating Director"
You didn't hear from him on Christmas. Do you keep him or delete him?
You heard from him on New Year's but since he hadn't called for two weeks you had already deleted him. Then he sends you a "Happy New Year" text. Now what?
You've known each other for a while but the connection between you has shifted. It just doesn't feel the same. Keep him or delete him?
How do you know when someone is worth keeping and when they are not?
Well, it depends on you. And the role you play in the relationship.
If you really clicked when you got together and he didn't call you on Christmas (especially if you just met) - Keep Him. Don't delete him. Not yet anyway!
He doesn't think like you during the holidays. For him, Christmas is just another day. If he's going to call you, he will call you. When he wants to. In his time.
Your role is to be Patient.
Wait for his call. Keep dating others.
Now if you are impatient and delete him because he didn't call when you wanted him to... When, after two weeks, you were hurt and furious and hit delete to show him... And then he texts "Happy New Year" (like nothing's happened!) Now what?
You keep him! He's just being a man. And a man won't do it your way. He will do it his way. In his time.
Your role is to be Accepting.
Text him back to say "Thank you." Chill out and keep dating others.
If you've known each other for a while and in the beginning it was great because you clicked in so many ways, then over time you find yourself drifting apart with different interests and different friends, and you just don't feel the same...do you keep him or delete him?
(Whew. That's a tough one.)
The general rule in relationships is unless you're getting physically sick, stay until it's over. Because if it's not really over, you'll find yourself in the same situation with someone else!
To know if you need to keep him or delete him ask yourself these questions:
Is this relationship resourceful? Does it serve me? Do I feel good? Am I having fun? Can we communicate?
Or does this relationship deplete me? Am I exhausted? Do I feel spent? Or dumped on? Or unimportant?
You'll know the answer. You'll know whether to keep him or delete him because...
Your primary role in every relationship is to be Self Loving.
Always.
To Your Love Life in the New Year!
If you're ready to Star in Your Own Romantic Relationship...Order The Role of a Lifetime: How To Star in Your Own Love Story Home Study Course today!
You didn't hear from him on Christmas. Do you keep him or delete him?
You heard from him on New Year's but since he hadn't called for two weeks you had already deleted him. Then he sends you a "Happy New Year" text. Now what?
You've known each other for a while but the connection between you has shifted. It just doesn't feel the same. Keep him or delete him?
How do you know when someone is worth keeping and when they are not?
Well, it depends on you. And the role you play in the relationship.
If you really clicked when you got together and he didn't call you on Christmas (especially if you just met) - Keep Him. Don't delete him. Not yet anyway!
He doesn't think like you during the holidays. For him, Christmas is just another day. If he's going to call you, he will call you. When he wants to. In his time.
Your role is to be Patient.
Wait for his call. Keep dating others.
Now if you are impatient and delete him because he didn't call when you wanted him to... When, after two weeks, you were hurt and furious and hit delete to show him... And then he texts "Happy New Year" (like nothing's happened!) Now what?
You keep him! He's just being a man. And a man won't do it your way. He will do it his way. In his time.
Your role is to be Accepting.
Text him back to say "Thank you." Chill out and keep dating others.
If you've known each other for a while and in the beginning it was great because you clicked in so many ways, then over time you find yourself drifting apart with different interests and different friends, and you just don't feel the same...do you keep him or delete him?
(Whew. That's a tough one.)
The general rule in relationships is unless you're getting physically sick, stay until it's over. Because if it's not really over, you'll find yourself in the same situation with someone else!
To know if you need to keep him or delete him ask yourself these questions:
Is this relationship resourceful? Does it serve me? Do I feel good? Am I having fun? Can we communicate?
Or does this relationship deplete me? Am I exhausted? Do I feel spent? Or dumped on? Or unimportant?
You'll know the answer. You'll know whether to keep him or delete him because...
Your primary role in every relationship is to be Self Loving.
Always.
To Your Love Life in the New Year!
If you're ready to Star in Your Own Romantic Relationship...Order The Role of a Lifetime: How To Star in Your Own Love Story Home Study Course today!
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